by Suzy Carbrey | Mar 19, 2026 | Uncategorized
At a Glance Broad or vague questions can overload your working memory, making it hard to answer. “Why” questions may trigger shame, defensiveness, or avoidance common with ADHD, RSD, and PDA. Use direct, curiosity-driven questions that feel optional and low-pressure....
by Suzy Carbrey | Jan 22, 2026 | Blog
There are few feelings more painful than believing you have disappointed someone you care about. A single word, a facial expression, or a shift in tone can leave a person replaying the moment long after it passes. For many adults with ADHD or executive functioning...
by Suzy Carbrey | Nov 27, 2025 | Blog
If you’ve ever found yourself suddenly folding laundry right before bed, rushing to send a message minutes before a deadline, or finally cleaning the kitchen at midnight, you know the avoidance–urgency cycle. It starts small. You see something that needs to be done,...
by Suzy Carbrey | Nov 20, 2025 | Blog
If you’ve ever felt calmer just because someone else in the room was calm, you’ve experienced co-regulation. If you’ve ever smiled without thinking because a friend smiled at you, you’ve experienced mirroring. These aren’t tricks or techniques to manipulate people....
by Suzy Carbrey | Nov 13, 2025 | Blog
Friendships are one of the most rewarding parts of life, but let’s be honest, they also take work. It’s not just about showing up for coffee or remembering birthdays. Maintaining friendships requires energy, planning, follow-through, and emotional availability. For...
